Hi and welcome to my first blog.
What an exciting way to communicate! Technology seems to be THE way of communicating these days as the primary means of sharing information.
I hear that clients send text messages to one another during the day as well as emails to keep in touch and then when they arrive home at the end of the day, there isn't much left to say! I find that a tad sad. The TV, computer or digital game is then gazed at as a way of unwinding after a day of work rather than engaging with one another.
Then I hear that their relationship is in trouble because of lack of intimacy!
Technology is also being used to spy on and stalk each other. This is not only illegal but leads to feelings of distrust and betrayal. This is one of the surest ways for a partner to create irreversible damage.
Often the reason given for this invasion of privacy is "because I love you". One partner may have such low levels of confidence and self worth that they feel compelled to check up on the other in an ill fated attempt to feel re-assured of fidelity and their partner's love for them. This usually backfires and has the reverse affect to providing comfort.
The intruding partner may say things that give the game away such as asking questions or showing knowledge that could only have come from having access to private correspondence with others. This inevitably leads to suspicion, conflict and disconnection and can be a deal breaker in relationship.
I look forward to your comments.What are your thoughts on invasion of a partner's privacy?
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